May 8th, 2008
Letter from a burn survivor’s mother
Dearest Delores,
About 3 years ago I sent you a letter telling you about or son Marc who was
burned in a terrible accident and was in Salt Lake City, at the University of
Utah burn trauma unit at the hospital. He was hospitalized for a year and is
home with us, and altho it is hard sometimes, he is making strides everyday.
He has since had numerous surgeries and the latest is to have his ankles
fused so he no longer has to wear braces to walk. This has made a big impact
on all of our lives and made him a little more independent. He doesn’t need
me to put his braces on before he can get up in the morning and he can now
wonder around the house on his own.
Just the little things, like eating and using utinsils has made a difference.
When he first came home I spent alot of time crying and didn’t think I could
do it. Listen to me I COULDN’T DO IT. The care givers deserve alot of
praise, I tell you that because I didn’t think I would ever find myself in
this situation. Marc will be 34 years old on the 7th and I thank God everyday
I still have him in my life.
It has been hard, at times. He cursed me, said things he didn’t mean to say
when I was giving him a shower, and that is the worst thing of all for me. A
mother should never have to give her 7 foot 285 lb son a shower.
When you sent the book “THE POWER ANGELS”, I read it and keep your little
verse about the gift in my purse and have given copies to burn survivors on
the Burn Therapy floor at the hospital. I hope you don’t mind.
Thank you again for helping me to stay sane.
You really are a “POWER ANGEL”
Victoria
Great Falls, Montana

